Tips and Advice for Safely Exploring the World of Double Penetration

November 24, 2023

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Double penetration occurs when one person is penetrated in two places at the same time. Typically, this involves either vaginal penetration and anal penetration, vaginal penetration and fellatio, or anal penetration and fellatio, depending on the body parts of the people involved and their sexual preferences. 

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To help everyone safely explore the world of double penetration, Eugina O Liberty, a professional sexpert from JOYclub.com, has shared some tips and advice.

The Snapshot

“If double penetration is something you’re looking to explore, have an open conversation with your partner about your desires,” O Liberty says. “It’s important that you’re on the same page — you don’t want any unexpected surprises! More specifically, share with your partner(s) what you would like more of and how you like being touched; let them know where your pleasure spots are.”

Illustration by Carlee Ranger.

“Clearly state your boundaries and anything that you do not welcome,” adds O Liberty. “Make sure you have a safe word, too.”

“There are certain questions you should always cover: 

  • Do you want to use condoms? 
  • When was the last time you had a sexual health check-up? 
  • Are you using contraception? 
  • Is it OK for someone to cum inside your mouth, vagina, or ass?”

“Answering all of these questions will help you feel more relaxed,” O Liberty says. “You should also make sure you discuss personal hygiene; if you are planning to explore anal play, make sure you use a douche and clean your bum of everything you wouldn’t want to use in your mouth.”

The Lesson

The real lesson here is that communication is key. The vagina and anus have anatomical limits that need to be considered, so you must make sure the receiver of the penetration is turned on and lubricated.

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“Check in with your partner and chat about your experience, what you liked and didn’t like, and what you want to try next time,” says O Liberty. “This is a learning process, and your sex life should always evolve with you.”

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